Tipping at a wedding or in general is an entirely subjective topic, but one that needs to be mentioned. Did you know there is wedding etiquette when it comes to tipping your vendors? Wedding magazines do their best, but the magazines are very generic and also nationwide. Did you know, Chicago is the third most expensive city to get married in? Which means the national average is going to be a little low for Chicago and surrounding suburbs. Having a wedding planner on board can eliminate a lot of confusion when it comes to this very grey area in the planning process. Please note, these are my opinions. You might disagree and that is totally okay!
If you do not have a planner, then hopefully this tipping guide will be a great resource for you. First step is to actually budget for this! Add a column in your budget for gratuities. Then, if for whatever reason you choose to reduce that amount or forgo the tip all together you have a little savings account. Though, with your wedding planner at your side, this usually does not happen!
Think of this gesture as a “THANK YOU FOR MAKING MY DAY AWESOME!” Yes, you are paying them to do a service. Just like you tip at a nail salon, you are thanking them for taking the time to do an excellent job. You will spend on average 12 hours with these vendors. Often, they are giving up their weekends, holidays and nights to meet with you, plan an epic wedding and perform a service that you will cherish for years to come.
While tipping is never expected, it is however, always appreciated. Often, a small gesture is all that you need. Check out the infographic I created with the help of my friend, Erin from Dotted Events.
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Thanks for reading and Happy Planning!